Sometimes, despite our best efforts, even when we give it our all and do our best, life throws us a curveball.
It’s taken me years to understand that during those times, you show more independence and self-reliance when you allow your friends and family to help you, instead of going it alone.
When you’re self-confident enough to say “I’ve done all I can do, but I have obstacles that I can’t conquer alone,” you show that you are still trying to get the job done, you’re still trying to provide for your family, and that you’re going to see it through, no matter what it takes.
My buddy Garrett and his wife Chris are those types of people. Garrett had some medical problems, and he and Chris are facing some huge medical bills. Garrett used to work with me, and Chris is still employed by the same company I am, so I know how hard these 2 work. I know how independent and capable they are. They see the work through to the end, and get the job done when others have given up.
I can imagine that allowing their friends to put on a Spaghetti Benefit was difficult for them, but they knew it had to be done. They’re going to see it through, and conquer this obstacle. With a little help from their friends, they’ll be stronger for it when it’s over.
I’m attending the benefit dinner, because it’s something I can do to help my friend. To help him get back on his feet and do what needs to be done. I’d love to see you there as well.
The dinner is Saturday, March 13, 2010, from 4p to 6p, at Mr. D’s Bar and Grill. That’s 5622 Grand Avenue, in Duluth, MN.



Facebook
Flickr
LinkedIn
RSS
Twitter
Youtube
{ 2 trackbacks }
{ 0 comments… add one now }